About Khemistry Boston
Khemistry Boston is a women led, sex-positive community dedicated to creating intentional spaces for connection, exploration, and authentic self-expression.
We exist to bring together kinky, curious, and open minded people in environments that prioritize consent, communication, and care, while still leaving room for play, pleasure, and discovery.
Our goal is simple: to make kink feel more approachable, more human, and more connected.
What We Do
Khemistry Boston hosts a range of experiences designed to meet people wherever they are in their journey:
- Kink discussion groups for learning, sharing, and deep conversation
- Kinky craft nights that blend creativity with sensuality
- Lingerie & clothing swaps that celebrate expression and embodiment
- Curated kink parties for intentional, immersive play
Whether you’re brand new or deeply experienced, our spaces are designed to feel welcoming, grounded, and thoughtfully held.
Our Values
- Consent is non-negotiable
- Communication is sexy
- Curiosity is encouraged
- Respect is required
We believe kink is not just about what you do, it’s about how you show up for yourself and others.
Women-Led & Founded
Khemistry Boston is proudly women-led and founded. We center emotional intelligence, safety, and intentionality in everything we create, while still embracing the playful, electric energy that makes these spaces come alive.
Meet the Founders
Sam
Sam has recently moved from NYC to Boston and brings over a decade of experience in kink and play party spaces. She identifies as pansexual and is deeply passionate about building inclusive, intentional environments where people can explore freely and feel genuinely and joyfully themselves.
While living in Bushwick, she ran Pillow Fight, an all sapphic event, for two years, creating playful, community-driven spaces centered around connection and shared experience. Her personal interests in kink span a wide range, including bondage, latex, and sensation play, with a particular love for electricity play and wax play.
Sam is drawn to the strange, the unconventional, and the delightfully unexpected, whether that’s in kink, community, or life in general. She loves nude beaches, goth dance floors, and finding humor in the absurdity of life.
Outside of the scene, she has spent 10 years working as a programmer and enjoys video games, as well as staying active through acrobatics, running, and yoga. She also has a special soft spot for coffee and fluffy cats, especially tortoiseshells.
Tina
Tina originally hails from Burlington, Vermont, and now calls Cambridge home after a stint living in Bushwick, Brooklyn. With a background in theater and a current career as a professional standup comedian, she brings a deep appreciation for performance, timing, and connection into all areas of her life, including kink.
She’s especially drawn to the playful, humorous, and adventurous side of exploration, and values spaces where curiosity, communication, and a sense of fun can thrive.
Tina identifies as monogamous and heterosexual, and approaches kink with both enthusiasm and thoughtfulness. She enjoys connecting with people who don’t take themselves too seriously but still respect the importance of boundaries, consent, and understanding.
Outside of kink, Tina can usually be found watching horror movies, playing blackjack, planning her next trip to a Disney park, or gravitating toward (and befriending) the nerdiest person in the room. She has a soft spot for bold personalities and soft dogs.
Our Vision
We’re building more than events, we’re building a community.
One where people can come as they are, explore what excites them, and connect with others in a way that feels real, respectful, and a little bit electric.